The Pilgrims made seven times more graves than huts. No Americans have been more impoverished than these who, nevertheless, set aside a day of thanksgiving.
~H.U. Westermayer
We've been home for one hour after a wonderful trip home to Ohio for the Thanksgiving festivities. This list will be a piece of cake.
1. I am thankful for the easiest drive ever. Driving to Ohio on the day before Thanksgiving is always a toss up. On a normal day, it takes approximately 6 hours to get from our house to COW's mom's house. The day before Thanksgiving can take anywhere from 7-12 hours. Between traffic coming out of Indianapolis and through Columbus, Ohio, plus any snowy weather they could be experiencing, the drive has been known to be horrible. We packed the van to be prepared for a worst case scenario, but were thrilled to have the shortest drive we've ever had. Not one traffic jam blocked our way, and all the snow from the previous day's storm was cleared off the road.
2. I am thankful for the hall where we hold the Thanksgiving feast. We used to gather at my grandma's house, but as the family grew and she got older, it became too much. The Fraternal Order of Police (FOP) hall is the perfect place. There is plenty of room for the 50ish people, including a stage area for the many, many boys to wrestle and play without hurting any of the adults. Plus, there is a huge oven for cooking/warming food, and a buffet area to serve it all up.
3. I am thankful for all the relatives who were able to make the trip. Aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings, nieces, nephews, and parents made it. Even my cousin who lives in Hilton Head made the trip with his kids. Everyone had a great time catching up.
4. I am thankful for my parents' ability to put the past behind them. My parents were divorced more than 30 years ago. It wasn't the prettiest of divorces. We'll leave it at that. However, over time, they have let it go. To the point to where they actually enjoy each other's company again. While it is my dad who hosts, and his family who we celebrate with, my mom is not only invited, but encouraged to come. She is part of the family, playing cards and talking and laughing with the rest of us. I am so grateful to my dad and stepmom for including her. It makes our holidays so much better to be able to spend the day with both parents.
5. I am thankful for my brother's surprise arrival. Neither of my brothers were going to be able to make it to Ohio this year, but at the last minute my youngest brother's plans changed. He and his family just showed up as we were getting ready to eat. Gatherings are always more fun when my brother is there. (Mom and Dad and any other relative reading this, DO NOT tell him this. His ego is big enough as it is.)
6. I am thankful for the time I have to spend with my grandma and her siblings. One great-aunt and one great-uncle and one great-aunt-in-law (all in their late 70s/80s) are frequent attendees at my dad's gatherings. I love spending time with them. We mainly play Euchre, but my great-aunt and I have our own Scrabble time whenever I am in town. I so enjoy listening to them talk about the old days, but talking about current things are just as good. They all have me laughing whenever I see them. My favorite line this week came after someone chided them for swearing in front of the kids. They were upset that people accused them of swearing/cussing, and one great-aunt said, "It's a bull, and it's shit. What else am I supposed to call it? Bull poop?" As my grandma was pointing out to just about everyone over the past couple months, this may be her last Thanksgiving. (None of us believe her.) I am going to take advantage of every chance I have to spend time with them.
7. I am thankful for my snickerdoodle recipe. I made a batch to take to Thanksgiving, and to say they were a hot item is an understatement. People were actually fighting over them. As in snatching them out of each other's hands, even after a bite had been taken. These cookies are that good. In the midst of it all, I found out where the recipe actually came from. I had gotten it from my mom, but didn't know where she had gotten it. On Thursday, I found out it came from my great-aunt's (of bullshit fame) mother-in-law. I am so happy to know it's origins, and that it wasn't just out of a magazine my mom read.
8. I am thankful for COW. I know, I mention him in lots of lists. But over the holidays, I am especially grateful. We always stay with his mom when we go back home, as my family's houses are all booked up with out-of-state relatives. Every single night we are home, every single year, COW will take the kids back to his mom's house, put them to bed, and stay with them while I stay at Grandma's or Dad's to spend time with my relatives. I get to simply enjoy their company till all hours of the night, without having to worry about tired kids or an endless stream of "Mom! Mom! Mom!"
9. I am thankful for the quiet morning I had the day after Thanksgiving. Each year, the NFL Hall of Fame has free admission for kids the day after Thanksgiving. COW has been taking the boys every year for at least 6 years. This was the first year all 5 boys were old enough to go. They all left the house at 7:45, Buttercup had some quiet time with my mother-in-law, and I got to stay in bed reading a book until I felt like getting up. It was fantastic.
10. I am thankful for the chance to help our parents and my grandma. While I love living in Indianapolis, I hate that I am so far away from our family. My dad, COW's mom, and my grandma are the only ones who still live in Ohio. There's not a lot we can do to help them when they need it. When we are home, we try to do as much as we can. We were able to help them get some heavy lifting and unloading and organizing and wallpaper stripping done while we were home. I know they appreciate it, but I wish we could do more.
Well, that was the easiest list I've ever done. I hope you all had a wonderful holiday (or a normal Thursday, for all my non-US friends) and safe travels. Feel free to link in a post or let me know what made you happy this week in the comments.
Have a lovely day!
7. I am thankful for my snickerdoodle recipe. I made a batch to take to Thanksgiving, and to say they were a hot item is an understatement. People were actually fighting over them. As in snatching them out of each other's hands, even after a bite had been taken. These cookies are that good. In the midst of it all, I found out where the recipe actually came from. I had gotten it from my mom, but didn't know where she had gotten it. On Thursday, I found out it came from my great-aunt's (of bullshit fame) mother-in-law. I am so happy to know it's origins, and that it wasn't just out of a magazine my mom read.
8. I am thankful for COW. I know, I mention him in lots of lists. But over the holidays, I am especially grateful. We always stay with his mom when we go back home, as my family's houses are all booked up with out-of-state relatives. Every single night we are home, every single year, COW will take the kids back to his mom's house, put them to bed, and stay with them while I stay at Grandma's or Dad's to spend time with my relatives. I get to simply enjoy their company till all hours of the night, without having to worry about tired kids or an endless stream of "Mom! Mom! Mom!"
9. I am thankful for the quiet morning I had the day after Thanksgiving. Each year, the NFL Hall of Fame has free admission for kids the day after Thanksgiving. COW has been taking the boys every year for at least 6 years. This was the first year all 5 boys were old enough to go. They all left the house at 7:45, Buttercup had some quiet time with my mother-in-law, and I got to stay in bed reading a book until I felt like getting up. It was fantastic.
10. I am thankful for the chance to help our parents and my grandma. While I love living in Indianapolis, I hate that I am so far away from our family. My dad, COW's mom, and my grandma are the only ones who still live in Ohio. There's not a lot we can do to help them when they need it. When we are home, we try to do as much as we can. We were able to help them get some heavy lifting and unloading and organizing and wallpaper stripping done while we were home. I know they appreciate it, but I wish we could do more.
Well, that was the easiest list I've ever done. I hope you all had a wonderful holiday (or a normal Thursday, for all my non-US friends) and safe travels. Feel free to link in a post or let me know what made you happy this week in the comments.
Have a lovely day!
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